Sure signs that you're building a passion-linked career
Alaina Love |
(Smartbrief) Mark Cuban is a brilliant entrepreneur. No one makes billions of
dollars without exhibiting business savvy, determination and tenacity,
but on one subject, Cuban has got it all wrong.
He says that one of the biggest lies about career advice
that people are told is to focus on your passions. Instead, he
suggests, focus on where you spend the bulk of your time, because that’s
where you are likely to find
what you’re good at. Spending enough time
at that activity, Cuban contends, will lead to success. To that I say,
maybe, but will it lead to joy?
How many people do you know who spend a lot of time at an activity
that they’ve become quite proficient at performing who really don’t
derive pleasure from that activity? You probably have a long list of
your own examples to point to. I’m great at organizing closets and
discarding clutter, but it’s the last thing I’d want to make a career of
doing.
Cuban is mistaken on two fronts: He conflates skill proficiency and
passion, and he erroneously compares passions to hobbies. They couldn’t
be more distinct.
Following your passions and building your career around them has a
very specific look and feel. It’s the product of consistent inner work
and outward effort that leads to a deep sense of connection to your
daily activities. The qualities you demonstrate during that experience
are unmistakable. Here’s how to know if you are following your passions:
Focus
When you work in the zone of your passions, you often find yourself
intensely focused on what you’re doing, to the point where time slips
away. Psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
would call that place “flow,” where you can access the most positive
aspects of human experience and derive joy from your work. While in
flow, your ability to tune out unpleasant aspects of life increases,
permitting you to deeply connect with the task or process with which
you’re currently engaged.
Persistence
Despite setbacks and naysayers, you demonstrate relentless pursuit of
your passions. The joy that you experience during moments when that
pursuit pays off or provides you with the resilience you need to weather
stumbling blocks or obstacles -- challenges that would normally derail
you if your efforts were focused on anything other than a passion.
Mind/body connection
It’s natural to experience periods of disappointment when your plans
to build a passion-linked career seem to be stalled, or the journey to
express your passions is progressing more slowly than you anticipated.
That’s when listening to your body, not just your brain, matters.
During such times, if you ask yourself the question: “Can I imagine
doing anything other than offering this work to the world?” If it feels
like every cell in your body is shouting “No!” or you feel a knot in
your stomach at the thought of giving up on your plans, pay attention.
This inner voice is passion acting as your guide.
Expression of self
The people I know with passion-linked careers demonstrate one common
trait: They all view their work as an expression of their best self.
It’s not that these accomplished people have tied their identity to
their work in an unhealthy way -- quite the contrary. These individuals
are highly self-actualized. They know who they are at their core, are
deeply reflective, and actively using work as a platform for making a
larger contribution to the world.
If you feel this way, a job is not an activity that you spend time
performing for 8 hours a day -- it’s a lifestyle. And because you’re
expressing who you are through your work, that lifestyle is
transportable, from one company, culture or country to another. There is
real comfort in that kind of freedom.
Meaning
Above all, people in passion-linked careers derive a profound sense
of meaning through their work. So, if you operate beyond egoism and tend
to pursue goals that will deliver more substantial and far-reaching
outcomes, you’re working from a place of passion. Beyond a hobby at
which you excel, or a skill at which you’ve become particularly
proficient, you are emanating passion that’s birthed from a deeper
purpose within you. It’s what allows you to be a true difference-maker.
And, what could be more fulfilling than that?
Alaina Love is chief operating officer and president of Purpose Linked Consulting and co-author of “The Purpose Linked Organization: How Passionate Leaders Inspire Winning Teams and Great Results”
(McGraw-Hill). She is a recovering HR executive, a global speaker and
leadership expert, and passionate about everything having to do with,
well … passion.
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